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Old 07-23-2008, 07:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
DarkenFreaky
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Join Date: Mar 2008
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Location: Washington, DC
Status: Couple
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Default Re: New and dont know where to begin

Welcome to the boards. Glad to see you all have worked through your issues and concerns. How to get started has to do more with what you 2 are looking to do and are comfortable with. Going to clubs, private parties or dating sites are all viable options. What is most important (in our opinion) is that you are doing it together and communicating honestly while you are doing it. Things can feel different or change as you are going through your experiences and constant communication will help avoid pitfalls.
As far as your 'stretched belly' there are all types of people in the world, and plenty of people, in and outside of the lifestyle, that love what you have. Those that don't won't so don't sweat them. Trust at a swingers club you will have the attention of several men, women and couples.
You all will be just fine as long as you continue to love one another, cherish what you have and communicate.
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