When Mr. Oly and I began considering the lifestyle, we joined a nearby on-premise club and dove right in...no full-swap...just getting comfortable with ourselves and our decision, but a lot of sex with just each other...out in the open around others, watching and being watched. We did notice there were very few people in the club in our age bracket. Heck, we've even begun to notice it elsewhere...here included. We've discussed the possibility that this is because the younger set may have less money (let's face it, clubs/travel/hotels/etc. aren't cheap) and less time (not as much accrued vacation time, kids, family). But, I just read a thread on here today that brought up a point I hadn't considered...that some more experienced swingers who have been married for a long time may feel that younger people might not be "ripe" enough for the lifestyle. Now, I can see where that might be true for some young couples. But, it definitely begs the question, do age, experience, and length of relationship lead to greater success in the lifestyle? Or is it simply that for some, what might have taken 20 years of marriage to finally work up to could come more quickly to a younger couple today?
