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Old 07-22-2008, 03:59 PM   #12 (permalink)
herpob
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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Location: Atlanta
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herpob gives some great advice
Default Re: Ok to watch?

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Originally Posted by fun4Ds View Post
Watching is fine in a public area. Asking if you may join in, might be appropriate if asked diligently

Asking them to move around so you you can see the porno shots is well.... kind of rude

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Originally Posted by fundove2 View Post
Wife and I always play in a public area expecitng males or couples to watch or join It is ok for you to watch and even join or masturbate watching if you are inclined. Sex is wonderful and open in a public area. fundove2@aol.com email me would love to chat with you.

As said – it is a public area. If people did not want to be watched they would not be there. If they somehow were there and didn’t want to be watched then it would be their goof not yours. In any of our public rooms we always had notices posted as to what was appropriate. With us you are not allowed to join but you may move around for better viewing, you may masturbate (not on us), have sex with others (just don’t get near us), you can even request for us to position better for your viewing pleasure (that is sort of the reason we are there). As I stated though notices are posted so all onlookers know exactly what is permitted. Watchers not only view but also provide security, if a jerk starts up with the loud distracting chatter, the watchers will call security and have them removed.

I was with my husband and three other guys from our group having sex in front of about 12 people. One young couple had never seen this and was all over one another as they watched. We had a watcher directing it us, the scenario was of course a guy’s favorite “husband watching wife get group f***ed.” The watcher had my husband standing fully clothed with his penis in hand while I did and was done every which way by our three friends. The young couple completely lost it and was almost on the liberator pads with us when a few watchers politely escorted them out. After we were done, cleaned up, and dressed, later we ran into the young overly horney couple – lol. The apologized emphatically and went on to explain what had happened.

It was their first live experience, though they had watched videos, talked extensively about it for quite some time, and role played all they could by themselves. It reminded me much of my husband and I during the first part of our marriage before we extended to swinging. So we let them talk. Watching us had gotten them so turned on that they wound up having sex after they were escorted out. They lost control while in the room ready to have at it right there beside us. The young wife asked me a zillion questions. They tried to hook up with us but we are exclusive in our group for safety and health reasons and of course no drama. My husband set them up with the perfect young couple we knew, a hot young wife and good looking well built husband. I heard later that they all had a blast and still are.

Always know the rules, stick to them, and everyone will have a good time.
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