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Originally Posted by realcplub2  Ok, So the Guy was an ASSHOLE.. (Note, No D's involved in that word)
But what was the Womans explaination?
And How exactly did all of this transpire, according to your post you and she hung out together while the GUYS went up to the room to discussed things further?? ALARMS BELLS RINGING!!
What was the conversation between YOUR husband and him?
There are some many things I see as potential problems with the way this all happend, and the least of which being Your Husband note talking to you about what happend upstairs before the GUY came over to you..
Again, The woman SHOULD have a few words to SHARE on this guy, since she was his TICKET.. Or at least appears to be. |
Mr. here:
Well, the way this transpired was, we were all going to a club across the street from the hotel. We were taking the ladies purses back to the room so they didn't have to keep up with them. Then once we were up there, we made a drink and started to chat. He was apologizing for if he seemed alitte shakey. He said he was nervous and had never experienced this before. That he wanted to put a good foot forward and he just wanted me to know that he thought we were great people and at the least just wanted everyone to have a good time that evening. I agreed and told him to just pull it together, dont put any expectations on the evening and lets just go and have a good time. I asked him to not spill anymore weird/crazy war stories...that no one wanted to hear them tonight and also that it's not often that me and the mrs. get out of the house. And as for talking to her about it, there simply wasn't the chance. He only stayed at the club for literally like 5 minutes before he left again. It was a clear indication that he would not be around for the rest of the evening. He went back up to the room and went to sleep. Later, I went up to the room, got our stuff and we went and got another room.
I have certainly learned a great deal throughout this ordeal. Wifey and I must stay in cahoots throughout the entire evening. There could have been a few different things we could have done to keep up with where everyone was mentally. In the future we plan on taking several time outs with each other to check on, talk to each other. As for the play....well....that prolly shouldn't have happened. And we know that. At the same time, I was kind of left with the impression that she could do whatever she wanted to. But apparently that was not the case. It was our first time with another women and I definatley got wrapped up in the moment and allowed myself to get carried away. It was a learning experiene for sure.
The best thing is that the mrs. and I have talked about this extensivley and are very cool and there are no underlying problems between us. And in all seriousness, that is the only thing I am concerned with throughout that ordeal.