Re: Ok to watch? Depends on the swinger and the swinger's mood at the time. Personally, I don't like the idea of being watched by a non-swinger. It would spoil the mood for me. In the past, when engaged in light play with someone in front of others, I haven't asked onlookers if they were there to play or just be entertained. It never occurred to me because I viewed my club as a sort of swingers brotherhood. After reading all these posts though, I confess I've begun to question the "sanctity" of it, for lack of a better word.
Sheesh. Thanks, CBS. |