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Old 07-21-2008, 08:00 PM   #14 (permalink)
Chitowndk4u
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Default Re: New to the board and possibly the lifestyle

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Originally Posted by fun4Ds View Post
Having a step mom with sound advice is well...... unexpected .

Just kidding, its all good

Ya know I could never express enough how we see things from a different perspective since swinging. I probably wear it out sometimes.. but finding out about each other is amazing because we do learn so much about ourselves as we go.

I think staying with your wifes feelings about the positive things she surly learned about herself, is something to keep in tune with. Sometimes its just best instead of asking questions, it's comforting to let our partners know they can share how they feel about themselves. With a little time, things expand and grow. Especially if we can learn to be understanding and trusting.
Yes, I totally understand.

I have been re-assuring her every step of the way. Now she is willing to talk about things and be more open.

We have a motto that we have had for a while, but had lost sight of it and that motto is: Whatever we do, we do together.

I can't wait to really explore this life and see how my mind and our lives change due to it.
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