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Originally Posted by SnowwwWhite  Admittedly moving away may be a bit extreme. I guess if it was me in that situation, I personally wouldn't want to ever have to see a woman again who seduced my husband. If I was forced to be in the same circles and see her at the same grocery store or whatever, I'd be horrified. It would be crippling to me. This was just my personal take on that situation. I don't have a husband or kids but it's how I imagined I'd feel.
Maybe the OP doesn't feel as strongly against this woman (as I imagine it) and it's all manageable without putting distance between you. But for me, I would have had a really hard time knowing I could see this person at any time. It would be paralyzing to me... and I would be better off knowing I never had to see her again and there would be no chance of accidental meetings. |
Not just this situation in this thread, but any situation. You can't run from your problems, you have to face them. If you run from issues every time something big comes up you'll be running (and moving) and awful lot in life. Life is full of risks, and swinging just adds more. You may need to ask yourself if swinging as a couple is something you could ever imagine yourself doing with someone that you care about? It's a very different thing than swinging as a single, or going to club with a guy that you don't really have feelings for just to have a partner there.