 Re: Performance issues
What you are encountering is actually much more normal that people would like to admit. I think it's more of a comfort issue than anything else.... both physically and mentally. My suggestion would be to take things slow and just go at the pace you are both comfortable with. Can he get hard in the group setting at all? Or does he get hard then lose it when he thinks he's expected to perform? Can he get hard and have sex with you in the presence of others? |