[LFM2]

For me, no, sex isn't that visual. Maybe 30%. It takes me 10 seconds at most to see if the guy is acceptable. By acceptable, I mean, hygienic, does he have teeth, does he have kind eyes, and is his smile nice? Body shape is not an issue. I'm drawn more toward bigger men. Call me weird, but six-packs do nothing for me. I'm drawn more towards personality, confidence (don't confuse that with arrogance, which is a total turnoff) and intelligence. It takes me 10 minutes to know if we mesh. This goes the same with couples.

As for your second question -- absolutely not. There isn't a chance in hell I'm going to fuck someone just because I'm horny. To borrow sweet_tna's line, "I go home with my honey, and still have a great night".