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Originally Posted by Chitowndk4u 
Things will go slow at first for a while. I hope to gain more knowledge from the members of this board. I have have been interested in the lifestyle since I was a young teen. Seeing those scenes in the old 70's porn movies got me interested in the mental and physical aspect.
By mental aspect I mean the courage it takes and the mindset for a man to enjoy sharing his wife and vice versa. I have met a swinger couple that I have talked to off and on ove the last couple of years. I found the husband to be one of the coolest people I have ever met. He taught me how to let go of my personal jealousy (not that I had a real problem with it, but it still is a mental hurdle to get over living in the world and how it programs you to be) and just enjoy the moment.
I have been more into it than my wife has been (well she wasn't at all), but she had a an experience recntly that changed her mind and now it seems that getting this life style and really enjoying it might be a real possibility.
Well, thanks for reading and I hope to gain a lot of wisdom from you guys.
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I am so glad you decided to come back and share some feelings. This site (as you already knew) is a wonderful resource for situations, questions, comments, or whatever you want to talk about.
Thanks for sharing the story regarding your wife. Swinging, as you've probably read here on the board is meant to be fun. Keep it simple and enjoy the moment. My husband and I have been swinging for a little over 2 years now and we seriously just love it. There are so many things I love to watch when he's with another woman.
<<Thats an evil grin!
Again, it's wonderful to have you back!!