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SnowwwWhite · 07-21-2008, 12:29 PM

Thanks, good advice!

I didn't let the guy ruin my experience, though. I was pretty caught up in the excitement of my first time at an on-premise club so there was a lot of stimuli! I was having a great time and there wasn't any "mental space" for getting worked up over someone else's behaviors. It's after I had time to reflect on the night that I started to wonder if that was normal. The guy would have had to touch me or something really overtly bad before I'd think to complain to the owner while on-site.

But I can say that if I see him again I'll be going the other way. I really liked the club owners and next time I'll probably ask them what I should do if I feel uncomfortable... and maybe briefly mention that guy as an example... and see what they say.

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SnowwwWhite Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 101 Location: Home Status: Female	Re: My First Time at a Club: Is This Normal??? Thanks, good advice! I didn't let the guy ruin my experience, though. I was pretty caught up in the excitement of my first time at an on-premise club so there was a lot of stimuli! I was having a great time and there wasn't any "mental space" for getting worked up over someone else's behaviors. It's after I had time to reflect on the night that I started to wonder if that was normal. The guy would have had to touch me or something really overtly bad before I'd think to complain to the owner while on-site. But I can say that if I see him again I'll be going the other way. I really liked the club owners and next time I'll probably ask them what I should do if I feel uncomfortable... and maybe briefly mention that guy as an example... and see what they say.