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Chitowndk4u · 07-21-2008, 11:53 AM

Hello swingers!

I am a married man and my wife and I are becoming more interested in the lifestyle.

Things will go slow at first for a while. I hope to gain more knowledge from the members of this board. I have have been interested in the lifestyle since I was a young teen. Seeing those scenes in the old 70's porn movies got me interested in the mental and physical aspect.

By mental aspect I mean the courage it takes and the mindset for a man to enjoy sharing his wife and vice versa. I have met a swinger couple that I have talked to off and on ove the last couple of years. I found the husband to be one of the coolest people I have ever met. He taught me how to let go of my personal jealousy (not that I had a real problem with it, but it still is a mental hurdle to get over living in the world and how it programs you to be) and just enjoy the moment.

I have been more into it than my wife has been (well she wasn't at all), but she had a an experience recntly that changed her mind and now it seems that getting this life style and really enjoying it might be a real possibility.

Well, thanks for reading and I hope to gain a lot of wisdom from you guys.

07-21-2008, 11:53 AM	#1 (permalink)
Chitowndk4u Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 44 Location: Chicago Status: M. Male	New to the board and possibly the lifestyle Hello swingers! I am a married man and my wife and I are becoming more interested in the lifestyle. Things will go slow at first for a while. I hope to gain more knowledge from the members of this board. I have have been interested in the lifestyle since I was a young teen. Seeing those scenes in the old 70's porn movies got me interested in the mental and physical aspect. By mental aspect I mean the courage it takes and the mindset for a man to enjoy sharing his wife and vice versa. I have met a swinger couple that I have talked to off and on ove the last couple of years. I found the husband to be one of the coolest people I have ever met. He taught me how to let go of my personal jealousy (not that I had a real problem with it, but it still is a mental hurdle to get over living in the world and how it programs you to be) and just enjoy the moment. I have been more into it than my wife has been (well she wasn't at all), but she had a an experience recntly that changed her mind and now it seems that getting this life style and really enjoying it might be a real possibility. Well, thanks for reading and I hope to gain a lot of wisdom from you guys.