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newlythree · 07-21-2008, 11:42 AM

Well me and hubby had our first foursome minus the guy from the other women who got pissed and left. So then there we three!!!

This experience sucked to say the least. The female side of the other couple was a nice a friendly lady. She was fun to chat with and very out going. Now the man side of the other couple was STRANGE (really). He proceeds to discuss his combat tours through out his career. I am saving you from details I was given. How his upbringing was and it wasn't pleasant either. What his IQ was and that he is ADD, PSTD and OCD. Too many D's for one soul. Well then he gets irritated with the fact that I am not all about him. So the guys go to the room to talk and the ladies go dancing. Having a good time again. Oh forgot to mention these two are in a committed relationship not married. So the boys return to the dance club after a while. At this point I can see all the players in the party across the dance floor. Hubby, fem and man, well I expected my husband to come across the floor to greet me as I am waving like a crazy person to get his attention that I am standing across the dance floor. No, he doesn't come instead he was getting a drink and sends strange man over. Well strange man grabs my arm and tells me "your mine", I respond "no the hell I'm not" and walk off. I join hubby and fem, strange guy leaves and we hang out a bit. It was all cool until hubby had no clue what to do with two women. I felt like the outsider, they danced and grouped. I had a couple a chats with various people there to entertain myself. So we all go back to the room and her and I fool around, well my husband asked to join and its cool until I am left high and dry. I did not get any attention from him at all. We discussed everything after all the events transpired, we are fine and have put some rules and measures in place to not have an event like that again. But it could have been better. Being new at something like this is scary just because a small fuck up can lead to big consequences. We are going to try again; I do feel everything should be tried twice, because the first time is always awkward.
Thanks for listening, I needed to vent, can't call your mom on this topic.
J

07-21-2008, 11:42 AM	#1 (permalink)
newlythree Active Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 47 Location: Virginia Status: Couple SLS Name:newlythree	It could have gone better Well me and hubby had our first foursome minus the guy from the other women who got pissed and left. So then there we three!!! This experience sucked to say the least. The female side of the other couple was a nice a friendly lady. She was fun to chat with and very out going. Now the man side of the other couple was STRANGE (really). He proceeds to discuss his combat tours through out his career. I am saving you from details I was given. How his upbringing was and it wasn't pleasant either. What his IQ was and that he is ADD, PSTD and OCD. Too many D's for one soul. Well then he gets irritated with the fact that I am not all about him. So the guys go to the room to talk and the ladies go dancing. Having a good time again. Oh forgot to mention these two are in a committed relationship not married. So the boys return to the dance club after a while. At this point I can see all the players in the party across the dance floor. Hubby, fem and man, well I expected my husband to come across the floor to greet me as I am waving like a crazy person to get his attention that I am standing across the dance floor. No, he doesn't come instead he was getting a drink and sends strange man over. Well strange man grabs my arm and tells me "your mine", I respond "no the hell I'm not" and walk off. I join hubby and fem, strange guy leaves and we hang out a bit. It was all cool until hubby had no clue what to do with two women. I felt like the outsider, they danced and grouped. I had a couple a chats with various people there to entertain myself. So we all go back to the room and her and I fool around, well my husband asked to join and its cool until I am left high and dry. I did not get any attention from him at all. We discussed everything after all the events transpired, we are fine and have put some rules and measures in place to not have an event like that again. But it could have been better. Being new at something like this is scary just because a small fuck up can lead to big consequences. We are going to try again; I do feel everything should be tried twice, because the first time is always awkward. Thanks for listening, I needed to vent, can't call your mom on this topic. J