Re: Performance issues I can certainly identify with your husband. That's happened to me, and boy I feel terrible (mostly for the other people) when it does.
For me, pills are not a sure thing. When I discussed that with my doctor, he prescribed some injections. When he first told me that all I had to do was to sink this little needle all the way in to my cock at mid-shaft, I was ready to swear off sex for ever.
As with many of my "solid resolutions" (loose weight, clear the yard, write a book, etc.) I weakened, and it actually worked.
Initially, the whole idea of sticking a needle in my prick was enough to make sure I didn't have an erection. But I took the stuff (needle, bottle of white powder, saline mixer, alcohol pad, and a lot of fear) to the bathroom and played "drug addict". With a real aching cock still smelling like the disinfecting alcohol, I decided to turn on the TV so I wouldn't disturb anyone with my just lurking (as if anyone would notice).
I don't know if it was the drug, the sounds I was hearing, the excitement I got from the occasional "peeking" at what the others were doing, etc. but before long, I found my trusty right hand wrapped around one of the finest pulsating erections I'd had in days.
I'm certainly not a doctor so I can't prescribe, but from what you say, your husband situation is definitely curable and you may want to discuss it with your physician.
For me, the only problem was that the erection wouldn't go away. Some people thought that was fabulous (and it was to a point), but after a while, it became painful, and I became tired. Now that I think about it, that could be a great way to work off these "love handles". --- Any ladies up for a ritual of daily "morning exercise" until I get in shape?
What I've since discovered, is that the duration of the erection depends on how much of the stuff gets injected. All my life, I suffered from that "If a little is good, more is better" syndrome; and, that's NOT a good thing in this situation. However, as was noted on another forum, taking an antihistamine is one way to kill an erection.
I'd be interested in hearing how it works out for you husband, and I realize medication is just a temporary "patch" which is probably all that's needed. From what I'm told, this is a real common problem, especially among men who were subjected to Christianity (particularly Catholicism or fundamentalists beliefs) as children [And, I do NOT claim any expertise on that!!] |