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Originally Posted by widowerman  I personally have been told that I am off limits because of my status on multiple occasions by women. They want to have sex with me, or even to talk to me just in general, however, they live by and obey their rules with their partners. This translates into that jealousy factor. |
I will have to disagree here. We primarily look for couples to play with, and if we show up at an event and there is a guy that I think is attractive...but is there as a SM...then I move on. Because I think my sweetie is jealous? Hardly...he's quite the voyeur and would probably love to watch/join in. But that's not what we are there for.
We are looking to find other couples to swap with so we both play. Otherwise play time would be very lopsided...not necessarily keeping score. But say everytime we go to a party/club and people just want to borrow him and I'm getting no play time...well that wouldn't be any fun for me after a while and I don't imagine it would be much fun for him in the opposite scenario.
We're in this to have a good time together...if we wanted to play alone all the time what would be the point of this? We could just open the relationship and do our own thing.