[singleagain]

Why do people want to swing...let me count the ways...

10 - My wife (husband) has a physical condition that prevents them from having sex.

9 - My wife (husband) is totaly indifferent to my sexual needs

8 - My wife (husband) is away from home for long periods of time and has given me permission find playmates.

7 - My wife (husband) no longer has the desire for sex.

6 - My wife (husband) needs the variety.

5 - My wife needs a bigger cock. (My husband needs a tighter pussy).

4 - My wife (husband) was a virgin when we got married and they need the experience of another lover to complete their sexuality.

3 - My wife (husband) just can't give me enough.

2 - My wife (husband) has never had a bi experience.

1 - My wife and I (my husband and I) enjoy each other immensely. We decided to offer each other the gift of extended sexuality because of our love for each other and our desire to make sure that both of us experience the utmost in sexual pleasure.

Alas, my wife did pass away. Many times we discussed swinging, but the sheer excitement of the discussions caused us to be drawn closer and rarely did we find the most elusive thing in swinging...a couple who thought like us.

In defense (without knowing him at all) of the man Julie references in her post, its really hard for most people to ignore the sight of some raving beauty (or in case of the ladies, some tall, dark and hansome hunk) and see past bodily images into the soul of a person. That being said, you first must have a soul of your own if you are to recognize that of another. Vegas Lee said it best, "You Can't Fix Stupid"!