The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Is it ok to go to a swinger club and just watch?

cassies · 07-21-2008, 01:06 AM

OK, so we were at New Horizons yesterday, and we had a great time dancing. This is our second time at a swing club, and we are there more to get a taste of the lifestyle rather than do any actual swinging. We went up to the play area wanting to watch, but not really knowing how to approach it.

AT NH there are more public areas and less public areas. We saw an attractive foursome playing in a public area and I did not know if it was alright with them if we watched them. And of course, I thought it completely wrong to ask them while they were having sex.

So my question is, if there is a public area of a swing club, how do swingers feel about being watched?

Bob

07-21-2008, 01:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
cassies Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 21 Location: Seattle Status: M. Male	Is it ok to go to a swinger club and just watch? OK, so we were at New Horizons yesterday, and we had a great time dancing. This is our second time at a swing club, and we are there more to get a taste of the lifestyle rather than do any actual swinging. We went up to the play area wanting to watch, but not really knowing how to approach it. AT NH there are more public areas and less public areas. We saw an attractive foursome playing in a public area and I did not know if it was alright with them if we watched them. And of course, I thought it completely wrong to ask them while they were having sex. So my question is, if there is a public area of a swing club, how do swingers feel about being watched? Bob