Re: I'm tired of my wife, mind if I do yours? Susan here-- I have often found that one partner, often the man, speaking negatively about the wife, uses it as a form of control. Control of how the woman is perceived, control of how he wants to be perceived, with neither being effective in manipulating a certain result. The actual result is that the lie of their relationship is exposed and you can join in or not. We always choose not to. |