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We are a couple who is new to swinging. We have had only a few experiences with couples and each time my husband has had some performance issues. He does not have erectile dysfunction. He can perform with me just fine, even right after an encounter with another couple when we are alone at home. It seems to be something mental, or maybe he's a little self conscious, I'm not sure. This is something we need to address before proceeding any further. He is very frustrated and can't really understand it himself. Does anyone here have experience dealing with something like this? Any help would be much appreciated. Thank you.