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jjtrindc · 07-20-2008, 09:02 PM

Agreed that VegasLee has given you great advice. One suggestion would be an "off-premise" club where nothing can happen. That is how we first started when we just weren't sure about the lifestyle. We found the off-premise club was just an upscale dance club with a really sexy vibe. It allowed us to really be into each other in a no-pressure atmosphere. We also discovered that the lifestyle really wasn't that "threatening". Everyone was nice, fun and for the most part respectful. We did that for some time before moving on to other things. Be honest with your wife about where you are going and if after that she still isn't interested then be happy that you have a great sex life and a good marriage!

07-20-2008, 09:02 PM	#6 (permalink)
jjtrindc Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 190 Location: Washington DC/NoVA Status: Couple SLS Name:jjtrindc	Re: I'm excited, wife isn't Agreed that VegasLee has given you great advice. One suggestion would be an "off-premise" club where nothing can happen. That is how we first started when we just weren't sure about the lifestyle. We found the off-premise club was just an upscale dance club with a really sexy vibe. It allowed us to really be into each other in a no-pressure atmosphere. We also discovered that the lifestyle really wasn't that "threatening". Everyone was nice, fun and for the most part respectful. We did that for some time before moving on to other things. Be honest with your wife about where you are going and if after that she still isn't interested then be happy that you have a great sex life and a good marriage!