[lustylearning]

Absent conversation, I imagine looks would carry a lot of weight. Throw in some personality, witty repartee, and the dynamics change. There are plenty of intelligent, sexy people who lose out to their more attractive counterparts because they do not bother to socialize.

That second question seems to be more of a disgusted perception, rather than a genuine inquiry. There is no reality that will apply to all. You cannot garner ultimate truth from a "yes" or "no" response, though you may find others who think like you.