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Originally Posted by ownerspet  I'm not going to try to speak for women, but I know men are more visual than women. However, I beleive for myself there has to be a level of attraction or I just don't want to and, and even if I did I couldn't get excited.
However, there are 2 things that add up to that level of attraction: 1. Is obviously physical attraction, but 2. is what comes accross in someone's personality in how a woman carries herself and interacts.
Odd, it seems that some newbies and/or vanilla people think that because I'm a swinger I will do anything. That couldn't be further from the truth. Me and my wife are selective, and we find that we don't have to settle for people that we aren't attracted to in order to play. That would sort of be counter-productive to our main goal in living life, "Enjoy Life."
Well, I don't so I don't know why. I'd be interested in seeing if there are any individuals that will speak up that will have sex with anything that is available. |
As for men are more visual then women, see my last post.
As for doing anyone, I have been to a few parties and I just shake my head. I have to admit, almost all of the men will seek out the most “attractive” woman to have sex with. And when they can’t fit in, they go to second best, and then third and then, so forth and so on down the line. I personally cannot do it. I just watch human nature unfold in front of me, and take anthropology notes. Hey, it’s just like high school all over again!
Now all we need is Disney to make it a musical.
Accept my apologies in advance, for I know I am a lighting rod to criticism. I just needed to know some real truths out there.