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Originally Posted by realcplub2  Ok.. Since you asked, let me ask... If you are a VISUAL person.. What do you do in the dead of night.. Y'know, in the DARK?
As far as what we find appealing, Sure looks are great, a shape is nice, but, what turns us on is two OTHER things.. How much of a PERSONALITY the person has.. Second, to be honest, Ability to get beyond the regular.. In other words, to be open and honest about SEX and what they are into/might be into/wanna try..
Part 2, No.. it takes more than a stiff cock or wet pussy to get us in the MOOD..
As far as the second QUESTION, everyone here who has been online for more than 6 months has had the IM, Email or standard message, looking to HOOK UP in an HOUR, Tonight, ECT.. and lets be honest, How many actually consider heading out the door for that? |
When I say visual, I mean as a generalization of everything we see. It could be a fancy car, a woman, a man, and even a work of art. I do not understand your question, “What do you do in the dead of night. Y’know, in the DARK?”
Are you asking do I fantasize? I may very well; however, I am a sleep I have no idea. Do I wake up with a hard on? Yes. Not always, I am human.
I did find it interesting that you do admit looks are great, a shape is nice and then begin the personality test. However, how can looks alone perceive a personality? You first see someone and then you talk to him or her, if there is some sort of attraction. I am not forming opinions at all. I am more inclined to have this as an honest poll, a question and answer period.
So far, I can see that people are genuinely honest that visual impact is a key.
Like you stated and in my paraphrased way, we all seem to look at that fast looking sports car, even when it is standing still. We like the sweeping lines and the general toughness the car exhibits. The car could be a lemon, but we all still look at it. And we fantasize.
Here is a quick story. I met two women at a motel party a few months ago. They wanted to get back into swinging so they joined in the party. However, when they saw the pickings, saw me, and looked at the pickings once more, they bolted for the door with me in tow. They later admitted that sex is 90% visual. I do not have to draw you picture. I just state facts. And this is where I ask everyone in a open honest way, “Is sex 90% visual?”
I am forming the opinion that looks do carry the day.
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