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Originally Posted by widowerman  Is sex 90% visual? As in, the object of your affection has to be great looking, good looking, somewhat good looking, who the hell is looking? |
I'm not going to try to speak for women, but I know men are more visual than women. However, I beleive for myself there has to be a level of attraction or I just don't want to and, and even if I did I couldn't get excited.
However, there are 2 things that add up to that level of attraction: 1. Is obviously physical attraction, but 2. is what comes accross in someone's personality in how a woman carries herself and interacts.
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Originally Posted by widowerman Second, question: would you have sex with just about anything that is available? |
Odd, it seems that some newbies and/or vanilla people think that because I'm a swinger I will do anything. That couldn't be further from the truth. Me and my wife are selective, and we find that we don't have to settle for people that we aren't attracted to in order to play. That would sort of be counter-productive to our main goal in living life, "Enjoy Life."
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Originally Posted by widowerman Second question, part B: And if you do, why? |
Well, I don't so I don't know why. I'd be interested in seeing if there are any individuals that will speak up that will have sex with anything that is available.