[VegasLee]

Welcome to the Swingers Board.

First off, until and IF she ever warms up to the idea you have no place to go at all, easy or otherwise.

When married swinging is about both of you. Something to remember is that MOST people do not want to swing and there is nothing wrong with that. Many men and women are perfectly happy being with the same sexual partner the rest of their life without every venturing outside of that relationship. Also, very, very few people have a relationship that can withstand the Swinging Lifestyle.

You can talk to her about it at times but if she continues to show no interest or says no, it is just that, NO. Nothing wrong with her, just how she is and since she is your wife you will have to happily live with it if you desire to keep her as your wife. Swinging is NOT worth wrecking your relationship for. The grass is not greener in this other world.

Don't dwell on it. Read the forums here, get the lay of the land. Talk to her about it, invite her to read the forums if she has the desire. If she does not want to, go on with life and enjoy something you two can do together that makes you BOTH happy.