[jnjswingcpl]

Wow, great thread...

For us, at least me (him) I would have to say getting off inside the woman. Getting off inside vaginally is something that my wife and I have discussed, and I'm just not okay with. For some reason, that part actually makes me feel sick to my stomach. Sex without condoms is okay with a couple we know to be disease free, but if he's going to get off, he has to pull out. And, because I do not agree with one-sided rules and coupled with the fear of the other female getting pregnant, I would not consider getting off inside anyone but my wife.

The saying of "I love you" by anyone to someone they are not married to in a swinger setting is another thing that we don't feel entirely comfortable with.