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Originally Posted by Chicup  Non-Swingers - Secrets from spouse.
Swingers - Secrets from family, friends, work, church, etc.
We just trade one set of secrets for another unless its one of the rare truly 'out' couples.
I think secrets from your spouse is worse but I do wish I could tell my inlaws, 'hey could you watch the kids tonight, yea its one of those nights we won't be back until after 3 so we will pick them up in the morning.' |
Yes we trade one set of secret keeping for another, BUT, we are sharing the secret with the person we are in it with.. OR in other words the private lines of communication are open.. and the rest are kept in the dark..