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Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u  Great profile on SLS - gave us some ideas for ours! 
How long have you two been together? Who introduced the idea of swinging? How was the idea introduced? |
Thank you, Our profile was definately an evolution. Still has its dwarbacks due to length. Can't be sure how many people actually read it all the way through.
We've been together for almost 14 years and married for almost 12. Me(The male) probably had more to do with the introduction of swinging. We had a few very soft swing experiences when we were first married mostly due to alcohol consumption. There was never any jealousy involved with the 2 occasion but if nothing else it started fantasies for the both of us that went on for years.
About 6 years ago I brought up the idea of going to a local club down in FL where we used to live. She thought about it but didn't think it was something she wanted to do at the time. Then about a year and a half ago she put me up to a bet to lose some weight. I was just diagnosed with Diabetes and she thought a prize of a FMF would encourage me to follow through with my diet.
Anyway I was losing weight not really because of the bet but because I needed to. A few months later, we were in bed having sex and fantasizing about being with another couple and she was really into it, moreso than usual and the next day when we were no longer in the heat of the moment I asked her if she wanted to try it and to my amazement she said yes.
Me, not wanting to waste time found a local m&g, we were hooked and the rest was history.