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Originally Posted by Chicup  You guys are kids, wait until you need baby sitters, have long time coworker friends who know your life story, and are at a point in life where you are not expected to make new friends and suddenly have 10 new 'friends' and are too busy for old Saturday bridge night.
Lies, lies, lies. At the very LEAST lies of omission. |
That is the point i am making... Omission isn't lying. if you were to get a babysitter because you were going to see a movie, would you be expected to give a blow by blow recollection of the entire film? if you were getting a sitter for a wedding, would it be assumed that you would recite the vows? why is it a problem to tell the family member/babysitter that "your going to a party with some friends" and leave it at that?
i must be missing something, but even my parents (over 60) are still making new friends, and they aren't swingers... didn't know that there was a cutoff age for friendship.
as for the friend that knows your life story... quite frankly, if i were trusting someone with my life story, with that intimate a detail, i would trust them enough to tell them that i swing. in fact, i have told/admitted to my lifelong friends just that.