[2inVT]

We have practical playtime rules.

1. If lubes or condoms are to be used, I will bring them. (I get itchy after using spermicidals, lubricated condoms, and flavored/heatable lubes.)

2. Calling me names like "bitch," "slut," etc. in the heat of the moment will just piss me off. Don't do it.

3. Anything that goes in my butt gets washed before it goes anywhere else.

4. No spitting on me to lube things. Ick, ick, ick. They show this in porn flicks, and it's just nasty. That's why I bring the lube; that's what lube is FOR.

Otherwise, anything else you want to do, suggest it. I'll probably be happy to do it.

As for our rules about initially meeting people, those have been developed over time by those "OMG we'll never do THIS again" episodes.

We don't meet anyone at their home the first time.
We don't meet anyone who can't/won't send us a face pic.
We make the deal-breakers clear up front: we smoke, she's a BBW, we have some tattoos, and her nipples are pierced.
We do not meet with single males who are cheating on their wife. Or single females cheating on their husbands.
We both have veto power, and it's not negotiable. (That's what house parties are for - the chance to play with the half of the couple you really like LOL)

Otherwise, we really don't have boundaries or rules. We do prefer to play same room, we by far prefer to play same bed, but that's not an absolute. It's just what we like best.