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Originally Posted by WeMayTryIt  Now we tend to keep our swapping strictly to active play times, and it's worked out well. Does that make sense? |
The other thing with us is that we're not so much into "swapping" as we are into sharing. We prefer to play interactively, all four of us (or three of us, or five... however many) on the same bed, where we can all touch and enjoy our spouses as well as the other people. (The women are usually bi or at least bi-friendly, and the men do not cross gender lines, though there may be incidental contact. Their preference.)
If we go out on the town with another couple, each "set" of us may intermingle, but there's never any blurred lines about who is married to whom. I'm just as apt to flirt with the other wife as I am with the other husband LOL.