The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Do you negotiate by rules or preferences?

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-15-2008, 02:56 PM

We don't really have a whole lot of rules or boundaries. Condoms are required and beyond that it's just whatever is comfortable for everyone. We'd be open to just same room sex, or only girl girl if that was what they were into and we were into them. I think in the end we operate based on attraction, if the attraction and chemistry is there then we can work within whatever boundaries are set by the other couple. Depending on what their boundaries may be, our question may have to be "do we really like this couple well enough to bother with their boundaries?".

07-15-2008, 02:56 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Do you negotiate by rules or preferences? We don't really have a whole lot of rules or boundaries. Condoms are required and beyond that it's just whatever is comfortable for everyone. We'd be open to just same room sex, or only girl girl if that was what they were into and we were into them. I think in the end we operate based on attraction, if the attraction and chemistry is there then we can work within whatever boundaries are set by the other couple. Depending on what their boundaries may be, our question may have to be "do we really like this couple well enough to bother with their boundaries?".