We don't know if this is a troll or not, does not really matter...
Bottom line is when you have anything that is important and valuable, you need to treat it as such. If you own expensive watches and jewelry, you should lock them up when they are not on your body. If you have important financial information and passwords, they should be kept private and safe at all times. Do not use computers for sensitive information unless you have secured them personally. If you have secrets, such as swinging, don't take chances. We know some couples that avoid meet-n-greets that are too close to home. Use a separate email and phone number for swinging. If you have to give an address for your club, get a P.O. Box. You have to put in some effort to keep the secret a secret. If you are careless, it's just a matter of time before your secret is revealed.