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JustMrJ · 07-15-2008, 12:50 PM

I would say that the advances of other halves of a couple or single toward my spouse would be met with quite a bit of resistance.

We have our 'love' relationship. Friends and even playmates are on a different level altogether. If she or I felt one of our playmates or even vanilla friends was attempting to cross over into our 'love' relationship level, then we would put a stop to it then and there.

How? Well, first we would attempt to talk to the person(s) about it together. If that didn't work we would be forced to sever our relationship with them. It's that simple.

I don't suspect this will happen because we make it very clear what 'level' we are on and what 'level' our friends and playmates are on.

*HUGS*

07-15-2008, 12:50 PM	#8 (permalink)
JustMrJ Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 337 Location: San Mateo, CA Status: M. Male SLS Name:JustMrandMrsJ	Re: How do you deal with inappropriate emotional attachment? I would say that the advances of other halves of a couple or single toward my spouse would be met with quite a bit of resistance. We have our 'love' relationship. Friends and even playmates are on a different level altogether. If she or I felt one of our playmates or even vanilla friends was attempting to cross over into our 'love' relationship level, then we would put a stop to it then and there. How? Well, first we would attempt to talk to the person(s) about it together. If that didn't work we would be forced to sever our relationship with them. It's that simple. I don't suspect this will happen because we make it very clear what 'level' we are on and what 'level' our friends and playmates are on. HUGS __________________ My opinion is just that... take it or leave it. Enjoy the "Now" nothing else exists.