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2inVT · 07-15-2008, 12:33 PM

We don't say "friends first," but we do expect to like the people we fuck. If we don't like them, we don't fuck them. This is part of the reason we have the neutral venue, no playing, first meeting with prospective partners.

We have become very good friends with several swinger couples we've been with, and see many of them often in vanilla settings as well.

We tend to think of them as a set. We think of each person as part of that set. Just as we think of ourselves as a set. I can't think how else to explain it. And while we've both played separately upon occasion, we are still part of the set then.

I think it's much the same way we view vanilla couple friends. Except we have sex with the swingers.

07-15-2008, 12:33 PM	#6 (permalink)
2inVT Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 136 Location: Vermont Status: couple SLS Name:2inVT	Re: How do you deal with inappropriate emotional attachment? We don't say "friends first," but we do expect to like the people we fuck. If we don't like them, we don't fuck them. This is part of the reason we have the neutral venue, no playing, first meeting with prospective partners. We have become very good friends with several swinger couples we've been with, and see many of them often in vanilla settings as well. We tend to think of them as a set. We think of each person as part of that set. Just as we think of ourselves as a set. I can't think how else to explain it. And while we've both played separately upon occasion, we are still part of the set then. I think it's much the same way we view vanilla couple friends. Except we have sex with the swingers. __________________ By the time they had diminished from 50 to eight, the other dwarves began to suspect "Hungry".