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Originally Posted by Dynamar  The topic the OP raises is a (perhaps) unfortunate by-product of the whole "friends first" type of swinging.... It used to just be about the sex. |
See, that's what I'm looking for. I wish it could just still be "about the sex."
If my partner and I are going to do this I want to make sure it's just about the fantasies, the intensity it will bring to OUR relationship, and the connection and communication built between US. I don't want it to be about building long-term emotional relationships that put us in jeopardy or add potential for drama.
Ultimately that's why I'm curious how veteran swingers try to prevent emotional attachments... and what steps do they take to get a handle on things if it happens.