How do you deal with inappropriate emotional attachment? Reading through the thread about mixing friendship with swinging, one of the posts raised a really good question. How do experienced couples handle situations where an inappropriate emotional attachment develops between two people within the foursome? How do you handle it and even more importantly how do you try to prevent it?
In the specific post, it was mentioned that this couple discourages "inappropriate emotional attachment" or misunderstandings with other couples by making sure cross-couple contact is strictly limited to the bedroom... ie. the male doesn't have "extra-curricular" contact with the female of the other couple unless it is during vanilla activities where everyone is together, or during swinging.
What are some of the ways to discourage these attachments and how do you deal with it within your relationship if it somehow happens? |