The Swingers Board - View Single Post

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-14-2008, 03:09 PM

First off, I have to commend Mr Van for stepping up and getting things started. Someone has to take charge!

For the kissing thing, I totally feel you MrsVan, that sucks. I think that knowing that is such an important part I would have wanted that to begin before you headed to the bedrooms just to make sure it was there. I think most often you can tell if there is sexual chemistry through a kiss before you take it any further, and being able to end it there would save a lot of hassle later.

As far as dealing with things where they stand now, I think you just have to "bite the bullet" and tell them. Get it over with or it will fester and bug you till you do.

07-14-2008, 03:09 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: It was bound to happen First off, I have to commend Mr Van for stepping up and getting things started. Someone has to take charge! For the kissing thing, I totally feel you MrsVan, that sucks. I think that knowing that is such an important part I would have wanted that to begin before you headed to the bedrooms just to make sure it was there. I think most often you can tell if there is sexual chemistry through a kiss before you take it any further, and being able to end it there would save a lot of hassle later. As far as dealing with things where they stand now, I think you just have to "bite the bullet" and tell them. Get it over with or it will fester and bug you till you do.