[VegasLee]

Your best bet is going to be to go to one of the local swingers clubs in your area.

Find a couple that you are attracted to and be up front about your desires and rules.

You should not have a problem finding what you are looking for that way.

There is a listing of "Swingers Clubs" at the the link on the top of this page. Check out the clubs in your area and pick one that looks attractive to you.

Have fun!