 Re: Question about clubs ... What to expect?
No need for concern. Dancing is not required although slow dancing is the least challenging and most can do. People don't know what you're drinking so don't worry about that.
Our favorite club give newbies a red bordered name tag so the hosts and regulars can identify them and offer extra support and help if they see a need. We were so scared our first time that we hung with a very nice host couple most of the evening. They took some heat for spending so much time with us but we were sure to offset that with positive comments regarding their job performance to the owners. We're regulars now.
We also recommend using the clubs as a meeting ground for couples you want to meet from SLS or elsewhere. For you I suggest this:
On SLS look at the events listing for the club you want. Then look at who is attending. Browse the profiles and find a couple or two you would like to meet. Email them and say Hi, we like your profile and we see you will be at the XYZ club on whatever date and we would like to meet you. We've never had an invitation like that refused. Boom, instant social contacts and they will probably have been to the club before and can introduce you to others and tell you about other venues. If you're lucky you will click with them, have some great playtime and meet new people through them. |