I read an interesting comment that alluded to swinger's skills and the thought hit me in a funny "job application" kind of way. Now I'm wondering what skills belong on the list and how one might evaluate proficiency.
Swinger's skills:
- Meet & Greet small talk
- Flirting
- Negotiating rules & boundaries
- Inviting someone to play
- Requesting to join an active session
- Rejecting someone's offer
- Kissing and soothing touches
- Giving oral
- Receiving oral
- Donning protection
- Getting/maintaining an erection/natural lubrication
- Bumping nasties
What other "skills" belong on the list?
How do you predict the skills of a potential playmate?
What is the minimum skill set you'd consider viable?
Does an invitation for a second encounter qualify as a "performance review" for a swinger?