 Re: Mrs needs her confidence back
I can relate to how your Mrs is feeling. When we started in the LS, I had a very low self esteem and had no confidence in myself at all. I am 5'3" and the same weight as your wife and do not consider 150 to be fat in any way. But she is right that she has to learn how to accept her body the way it is and be comfortable with that.
MrVan and I when we meet other couples, have not found anyone that was against my body size. I was more worried that people in the LS only accepted the "barbie" material woman but have come to realize that more people are turned off by the skin and bones woman than they are those with a little meat around their waste.
I think once she is able to get out to the clubs or meet up with couples then she will start to get her confidence back as it took me a while in the LS to get use to the fact that people did find me attractive. It just takes some time.
Good luck and hope all works out for her.
MrsVan |