[multiplesforme]

i really like all the advice given here. i think as a somewhat "newbie" (i have been a part of this lifestyle - but dave hasn't) that communication as to what you want - like - fantasize - willing to do - , etc. is extremely important. you need to talk about feelings you may or may not have about situations and how will you react to them. so - i think communication is the most important step here. i also really like the advice given as to doing it together. i think if you are a couple - and this is something that you both want to explore and add to your life - then....do all the parts of it together. the whole process of exploring this area in our life has been an added sexual adventure for both dave and i - and what better way to keep this as something between the two of you then to make sure the both of you to do it together?