MrsVan

Well, I figured since MrVan brought up our evening last night that I would as well put my thoughts into it and maybe get some thoughts from those of you here as well.

As MrVan stated, the evening started off really well as we all got along really well. But in the bed was were the problems began. As I told MrVan before we started to play I was feeling a little sick to my stomach not sure if it was nerves or my thryoid issue as even here lately when I think of sex I just feel sick to my stomach but with MrVan I can get past that feeling once the pleasure in bed starts happening. But this evening, I started to get turned off the moment we started playing as the husband was not a great kisser. To me, the kissing is very important and it is what gets me turned on and gets me excited (along with other things). And then there were just other factors that happened in the evening that I just lost interest.

MrVan has chatted shortly with the husband this evening and said that they had a great time and would like to get together again but now we are stuck trying to find a way to break the news to them that sexually there is no interest.

Wish us luck as we find a way to be honest with them and hope that we can find the right way to do so. We enjoy their friendship but we have come to learn that once you say there is no connection, then the communication usually stops. So we are expecting them to walk away which is fine and we understand. It would have to be hard to remain in touch with each other if there is no connection..I mean, we are in the LS for a good time and I was just not feeling it last night.

MrsVan