So maybe this wouldn't really qualify as a "bad" experience but it surely wasn't one of those great experiences that we are used to.
After months of conflicting schedules we finally had the opportunity last night to meet a couple we have been chatting with for a play date. We had dinner, sat around talking for hours and it just didn't seem like anything was going to happen. Nobody was making the first move and it was getting late, so finally I just looked at everyone and said, ok let's address the big not so naked elephant in the room...are we going to play or are we not. If not no big deal, but we need to get going then so we can all get to bed...if so we are ready and willing.
I know not the best way to get things started but I have never been the most eloquent person anyways.
So we finally get upstairs and the wife and I had a really really good time. MrsVan and the husband just didn't seem to have that sexual chemistry going on. We all go along great, but not in the sack.
We haven't heard back from the other couple yet and looking back on the evening we might not. We really liked them but we don't think we could play with them again. I would play with the wife again in a heart beat, but since MrsVan was not having much fun and the other husband also didn't seem to be having much fun, why bother. The problem is that past experience says that if/when we told them we didn't want to play again, we would never hear back from them. Can't say as I blame them though, I mean it would be pretty obvious as to why whe didn't want to play again.
I guess we had been very lucky as this really is only our second bad encounter and like I said, it was a terrible encounter, just not pleasant for MrsVan...and if one of us isn't having a good time then why bother.
-Van