 Re: Instant connection - Few and far between
We've talked more about this incident since it happened. His thought are that since he is the more laid back one, he trusts me to pick the right couples/singles for us. He is not one to ask, and instead of sitting back waiting for couples/singles to ask us, he's okay with me being the initiator.
Since he takes more time getting to know a lady, I was sitting back waiting for him to initiate, and that's not going to happen.
So, now that I have the green light, I can feel more comfortable asking couples/singles to join us. It's easier for me.
He'll tell me if he's not interested or if he just wants to watch.
This is a big hurdle for us, and I'm glad we got it worked out. Thanks so much for your input.
Mrs. D |