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Originally Posted by jets69  Could some of you just confirm to me (and eventually to her) that physical perfection is not necessary? |
We can confirm that its not necessary, because we know too many swingers now
I think something that should be important to each of you, is believing each other first. Acceptance of our own partners opinions about our self image, is sometimes all we have to go on when dating or playing with others.
We ask each others opinions about our selves and we accept that each others opinions are true.
We believe each other about looking as good as we can. We had similar problems when we started venturing into sexual relationships with other people. Our self image could have always been the stoppers but we are honest with each other before we go out. We accept each others opinions. Hell, we have even asked each other to correct anything that looks out of proportion. Were not perfect, but we believe each other about how we look.
Then, we don't worry so much about how we look to other people. It works out better meeting people. It gives us more freedom to find a connection focusing on what we like about others. Instead of worrying about our self image.
After all, who els could we ask before going out "Do I look fuckable"
