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Originally Posted by jets69  I still find her sexy and irresistible. She is a beautiful, vivacious, outgoing woman who consistently makes people do a double-take. When other men look at her, whether they are lifestylers or not, I can tell what they're thinking and it's dirty! |
Then no reason to think that still isn't true. Self-confidence is a vicious cycle, the more it declines, the more those worries come to the front, causing it to decline even more. The only way to break the cycle is just get out there and you'll see that swingers come in all shapes and sizes, and that no one's ideas of physical attractiveness are the same, and there will likely be no shortage of those to whom she is exactly their type.
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Originally Posted by jets69 It seems to me that if personalities click, the sex will be dynamic. Could some of you just confirm to me (and eventually to her) that physical perfection is not necessary? Thanks. |
Yes, most would probably agree the personalities have to click. Sure, there is some level of initial physical attraction needed, but for us and probably most others, the personality and overall chemistry is going to be what they are most picky about when it comes to choosing a playmate.
Physical perfection, what's that? Ask 10 people, you'll get 10 answers, all of them right
There's someone for everyone, just go out and have fun and you'll run into them.