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realcplub2 · 07-12-2008, 01:15 PM

I would say it depends a great deal on the people that you meet

We have times where we met and hours later were all naked, and then there are times where for one reason or another we are still working on getting to that point..

For us there needs to be a connection beyond the usual, and for my wife, a level of trust needs to be built for her to feel comfortable naked with anyone.. Sometimes it happens quickly and others.. well, it just depends..

a great personallity and sense of humor goes a long way..

But as far as taking the lead more, I would tend to suggest talking to your husband.. If you a ready to make a move and he is still not there.. you might step on some very important feelings that will affect you well after the others have gone home..

07-12-2008, 01:15 PM	#4 (permalink)
realcplub2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 348 Location: North Central Florida Status: Couple SLS Name:putnamcocpl Blog Entries: 17	Re: Instant connection - Few and far between I would say it depends a great deal on the people that you meet We have times where we met and hours later were all naked, and then there are times where for one reason or another we are still working on getting to that point.. For us there needs to be a connection beyond the usual, and for my wife, a level of trust needs to be built for her to feel comfortable naked with anyone.. Sometimes it happens quickly and others.. well, it just depends.. a great personallity and sense of humor goes a long way.. But as far as taking the lead more, I would tend to suggest talking to your husband.. If you a ready to make a move and he is still not there.. you might step on some very important feelings that will affect you well after the others have gone home..