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arvcpl · 07-12-2008, 09:21 AM

First my condolences on your divorce, that sounds kinda creepy on her part and that had to be a tough thing to have to deal with.

What specifically is it that "fascinates" you about swinging? How you answer that has a huge bearing on if the swinging community is where you really want to be looking.

A single male in the lifestyle is essentially a dildo that talks. A single male is an extra cock, tongue and set of hands to help couples fulfill their MFM and gangbang fantasys and to use as a prop in their sexlife. If you are ok with that and that is a role you would like to play, knock yourself out. If you are looking to be an extra cock for a couple in the threesome or a cock waiting in line for a gangbang for a couple's gangbang fantasy then the swinging community may offer you something.

If you are looking at it as a way to find cheap and easy pussy where you get to call your own shots this isn't the place. If if you are just wanting to screw chicks without being in a serious LTR and you want to be "in charge" you would be much better off pursuing more traditional means of picking up chicks, like meat market bars, traditional dating sites etc etc.

In otherwords if you are looking for single women for 1-on-1 encounters where you get to call some of the shots you are best off looking in traditional singles venues. If you are wanting to be an extra cock for a couple to play with or to stand in line for a gangbang then you may find success in the swinging community.

A lot depends on your actual objectives.

07-12-2008, 09:21 AM	#9 (permalink)
arvcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 119 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple	Re: How to get started? First my condolences on your divorce, that sounds kinda creepy on her part and that had to be a tough thing to have to deal with. What specifically is it that "fascinates" you about swinging? How you answer that has a huge bearing on if the swinging community is where you really want to be looking. A single male in the lifestyle is essentially a dildo that talks. A single male is an extra cock, tongue and set of hands to help couples fulfill their MFM and gangbang fantasys and to use as a prop in their sexlife. If you are ok with that and that is a role you would like to play, knock yourself out. If you are looking to be an extra cock for a couple in the threesome or a cock waiting in line for a gangbang for a couple's gangbang fantasy then the swinging community may offer you something. If you are looking at it as a way to find cheap and easy pussy where you get to call your own shots this isn't the place. If if you are just wanting to screw chicks without being in a serious LTR and you want to be "in charge" you would be much better off pursuing more traditional means of picking up chicks, like meat market bars, traditional dating sites etc etc. In otherwords if you are looking for single women for 1-on-1 encounters where you get to call some of the shots you are best off looking in traditional singles venues. If you are wanting to be an extra cock for a couple to play with or to stand in line for a gangbang then you may find success in the swinging community. A lot depends on your actual objectives.